Has a woman’s expiration date really passed after thirty?
The “market value” of a man in society is usually defined by three main factors: status, fame, and money. For women, their market value is often measured by: youth, beauty, and modesty.
The more promising a man’s future looks, the more desirable he becomes to women. On the other hand, the less emotional or social history a woman has, the more valuable she is seen, and the more interest she attracts. When a man is surrounded by many women, it means he is in demand. Women compete to win his heart because he is considered a “king among men.” A woman, however, is seen as more valuable when she is distant from men — it shows she is modest and pure.
When a man is alone, women usually don’t care much about him. But once he is in a relationship, suddenly he gets more attention — even better offers from other women. Most women proudly talk about their husband’s social status or money, and rarely do they mention his knowledge, religion, or values.
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Weak men often create masculine, aggressive women (what society calls “feminists”), while strong men bring out true femininity in women. A woman naturally follows a man with a strong, charismatic, and confident personality. She feels uncomfortable with a weak, overly kind man who lacks self-confidence and self-worth.
If you notice, when a woman is cheated on by a poor man, she says:
“I accepted his poverty, and he still betrayed me!”
But when a rich man cheats, she says:
“That evil woman tried to steal my husband!”
Women are often attracted — even unknowingly — to men who show signs of the “dark triad” in psychology: psychopathy, narcissism, and Machiavellianism. When a normal man tries to fake these traits, most women can feel it. They have a kind of sixth sense that helps them know who is truly strong and who is pretending.
A woman reaches her peak market value when she is young, but this value slowly decreases with age — especially when her beauty and fertility decline. A man, however, starts from the bottom. But as he grows older — with the right guidance and support — he matures, gains money and power, and his value rises.
A woman’s best time in the “relationship market” is usually before the age of thirty. That’s when she gets the most attention and marriage proposals. After thirty, her value starts to drop.
In contrast, a young man gets very little attention. People don’t really care about him because he’s still studying or building his life. But once he gets a good job, a house, and a car — suddenly, the attention comes. Women start chasing him. He becomes highly desired.
