Answer to that 3 Questions!
Well it is for inner prospection☆~☆
1. If you could turn back time, What would change in your life ? — I would like to change my way of thinking and some aspects of my personality. I feel that I am easily hurt, and I take things very personally. I am a very shy and introverted person. I often feel insecure about my own colour, as if it makes me less confident. I know that my skin colour is not something I should feel ashamed of, yet sometimes I find myself feeling insecure about it. I also feel that I am not as smart or confident as an average student, and I often doubt myself. I overthink various problems and situations, even when they may not be as serious as I imagine them to be.
But one thing I would like to mention is that there is no such thing as a perfect person. Everyone has their own struggles, insecurities, and weaknesses. We all have something to work on, and that is a part of being human.
If I could turn back time, I would want to understand myself better and learn how to deal with my insecurities. I would want to become more confident, stop comparing myself to others, and learn not to take every little thing to heart.
Now, I consider myself a student who is still learning and growing. I know that change does not happen overnight, and I don’t need to become a completely different person to be happy with myself. I just want to become a better version of myself, someone who can accept her flaws, appreciate her strengths, and face life with greater confidence.
Above all, I want to remind myself that I don’t need to be perfect to be worthy of love, friendship, and respect. I believe that, with time, patience, and self-understanding, I can become the person I wish to be.
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2. Have you ever experienced a sense of stagnation( or a feeling that life is meaning les)? If so, did it happens often or only occasionally? What specifically led to this? Why did you have this feeling? — Yes, I experienced it, this has happened only once in my life so far, when I was waiting for my results. I was worried, stressed, and felt lost, wondering what would happen to me and what my future would look like. At that time, it felt as if everything had come to a standstill, as though there was nothing left for me beyond that moment. I felt as if all the good moments of my life were already over and that nothing good was waiting for me in the future. 😌
3. What would you say to your younger self ? — I just simply hug my younger self And I would simply tell her, “It’s okay. Everything will be fine. Look at you now—you are becoming the person you always wanted to be. You are moving in the direction you once dreamed of. I would tell her, ‘It’s alright. Whatever mistakes you made were just a part of your childhood and immaturity. Let them go, forget about them, and be happy, you silly girl. 🤭
I don’t know how I even wrote this. I wonder how it turned out 🤔 ?
