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we were sitting on the cold kitchen floor at two in the morning, right in front of the open fridge. the harsh yellow light was washing over us, illuminating the half-eaten fettuccine i couldn’t finish and the two forgotten cans of soda on the tile. outside, the wind was howling against the apartment window, but inside, the only sound was the loud, hum of the compressor kicking on and the steady drip, drip, drip of a leaky tap in the sink.

i was leaning my back against the bottom cabinets, my knees pulled tight to my chest, staring down at my socks. he was sitting a few feet away, leaning against the opposite wall, resting his forehead on his knees.

"i just wanted to help you," he said, his voice flat and completely drained, echoing softly against the kitchen tiles. "you’ve been overwhelmed for weeks, so i took care of the laundry and cleaned up your desk. that was it. i was just trying to be nice."

"well, i didn’t ask you to touch my stuff," i snapped back, my voice sharp and cold. i hated how defensive i sounded, but the panic in my chest was making me react before i could think. "you moved everything around. now i can’t find anything, and it just feels like this isn’t my home anymore."

he lifted his head slowly, and the look in his eyes made my stomach drop. there was no anger there, just a visible overwhelming tiredness. his eyes were red, wet, and tired.

"are you serious right now?" he whispered, his voice cracking so hard he had to stop to swallow down a sob. "i spent two hours trying to make your life a little easier, and you turn around and attack me for it? you accused me of being controlling, brought up that stupid argument about my mom from last month, and completely shut me out. i can’t keep doing this. i am so exhausted of you and your pride, and i am so tired of being punished for things i never even did to you."

his words hit me like a splash of freezing water. the sink kept dripping and the hum of the fridge felt deafening.

i sat there, totally frozen, watching his hands shake as he wiped a tear off his cheek. all that ugly anger in my chest just melted away, leaving this sick, heavy guilt. he was right. he was just trying to do something sweet, and i turned it into a ridiculous fight. the second i felt out of control, i panicked, then start to putting up walls, bringing up old arguments, and attacking him first just so he wouldn’t see how scared i actually was. i was taking out my past on him, making him pay for stuff he didn’t even do. sitting on that cold floor, it finally hit me. if i really loved him, my love had to be bigger than my stupid pride, my fear, and all the old history i keep carrying around. love was supposed to make him feel safe, not punish him for caring. it was supposed to quiet that loud voice telling me to push everyone away, and just choose to be soft even when being cold felt so much easier.

he slid his feet out, bracing his hands on the floor to push himself up.
"i’m going to sleep on the couch," he whispered, staring down at the tile, unable to even look at me anymore. "i love you, but if you’re just going to keep hurting me every time i try to understand you, i think we’re really at the end of this."

my heart slammed against my ribs so hard i couldn’t breathe. the cold air from the open fridge was creeping over my legs, but i couldn’t move. he took a step toward the hallway, his shadow stretching long across the floor.

"i’m scared," i whispered.

he stopped right at the edge of the kitchen, his back to me, his shoulders rising and falling with a heavy sigh. he didn’t turn around, and he didn’t walk away into the dark living room either. he stayed right there in the doorway, his silhouette blocking the hallway dark. the fridge light washed over the space between us, and for the first time, i didn’t know if a simple sorry was ever going to be enough again.