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How Guesting on TikTok Became a Masterclass
A Lesson from My TikTok Live, Constellation: Ego, Discernment, and Wisdom
Sometimes we don't realize we're in the middle of a lesson until we've had enough time to step back and see what the experience was actually showing us.
What started as guesting on a TikTok Live became a much bigger moment of reflection for me about disagreement, disrespect, discernment, ego, and the responsibility that comes with being in someone else's space.
We were all connected through one creator's Live before we started creating on our own. Since then, I had started showing up more consistently for two of the women who had become creators themselves. They would take turns guesting in each other's Lives, and one of them would regularly send me into either her Live or the other's, depending on who was Live at the time. So I had naturally started getting to know both of them and becoming familiar with their spaces.
That day, another woman from that same original Live joined the Live I was in with one of the women.
I was participating in the conversation, listening, joking, asking questions, sharing my perspective, and studying the room. That's something I naturally do. I listen, I observe, I notice shifts in tone, and I pay attention to what's…
