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It’s a strange kind of realization. While you were around, available, and making an effort, they treated it like it was ordinary. Then you travelled or left entirely and suddenly they start caring.
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Suddenly there’s warmth, regret, or a soft “I miss you” that wasn’t there before. It can feel confusing and a little painful. You wonder why your presence was taken for granted, and why your absence finally made you valuable.
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When someone knows you’ll be there, they stop trying as hard. Your reliability will be taken granted
This is so true. I have had people in my life who got used to the fact that I was there for them, due to which later on, they felt that they are entitled for my support, always.
Being valued while you’re still around feels better in the long run.
My cat, Twitch tends to take me for granted. After an extended period of absence due to a family emergency, he showered me with gratitude upon my return! (He dialed his affection way up and won’t let me out of his sight!)
