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Jun 15

I Didn’t Need to Become Someone Else. I Needed Structure

This for for those who feels struggle to fit in, do not feel motivated, and this gut feeling that you are not living up to your potential.

I Didn’t Need to Become Someone Else. I Needed Structure

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Aug 30

I Kept Calling It Logic. It Was Fear.

For a long time, I felt like I was losing a battle with myself.

I Kept Calling It Logic. It Was Fear.

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Aug 23

I spent years chasing intensity. What actually changed my life was repetition.

The winning strategy is showing up. Do not underestimate the power of being there.

I spent years chasing intensity. What actually changed my life was repetition.

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Aug 12

I Wish My Brain Could Feel What I Know. When Every Victory Feels Like Just Another Task

The ADHD symptom nobody warned me about

I Wish My Brain Could Feel What I Know. When Every Victory Feels Like Just Another Task

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Jul 29

ADHD made me broke and jobless, and years later ADHD made me the top 5% earner

This isn’t a story about making money.

ADHD made me broke and jobless, and years later ADHD made me the top 5% earner

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Jul 16

Fear Kept Me in Survival Mode. Naming It Changed Everything.

I used to think I was making rational decisions.

Fear Kept Me in Survival Mode. Naming It Changed Everything.

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Jul 6

Living with ADHD Didn’t Make Me More Disciplined. I Just Made Life Easier.

Living with ADHD didn’t make me more disciplined.

Living with ADHD Didn’t Make Me More Disciplined. I Just Made Life Easier.

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Jul 2

The Opposite of Survival Mode Isn’t Motivation. It’s Better Defaults.

Scrolling through ADHD communities and self-improvement forums, one phrase keeps resurfacing:

The Opposite of Survival Mode Isn’t Motivation. It’s Better Defaults.

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Jun 28

The World Finally Caught Up to My ADHD

Everyone says time is our most valuable resource. I don’t think that’s quite the whole story. Time doesn’t matter very much if my attention…

The World Finally Caught Up to My ADHD

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Jun 27

It Took Me 35 Years to Learn How to Work With My ADHD.

I can’t solve your ADHD in five minutes.

It Took Me 35 Years to Learn How to Work With My ADHD.

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Science lover. Writing about structure, self-awareness, work, parenting, and learning how to function better without pretending to be someone else.

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