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How Two: Have a Successful Relationship

How Two: Have a Successful Relationship

This book offers a path to transforming your relationship into a peaceful one with a simple step by step process for creating mutual solutions.

2016

Maude Mayes, et al.

Maude Mayes, Phil Mayes

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Jul 5

The Secret to Deep, Peaceful Relationships is Quiet but Powerful Trust

Trusting requires us to become vulnerable and to be willing to open ourselves to the possibility of betrayal.

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Jun 28

What’s in the Cards for Your Relationship?

When there is a difference in how we see things, we both tend to look inward to find out how we are feeling.

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Jun 22

How Relationships and Community Fulfill the Same Need for Connection

Our close relationships can offer a wonderful feedback loop for spreading peace within the larger community.

Little Free Library

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Jun 9

How to Stop Playing the Blame Game and Actually Feel Peaceful

Blaming someone else for your own behavior and reactions, has many consequences, and none of them help you, or anyone else.

Editor’s note: they weren’t really arguing!

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Jun 1

Support Peace in the World by Expanding Your Circle of Trust

Fear is divisive, while love is a unifying force.

Mushrooms forcing their way to the surface

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May 11

The Pleasures and Importance of Shared Experience in Your Relationships

We are a social species, and connection is a deep need we all have.

Two woment holding each other and laughing

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May 4

Are You Emotionally Present in Your Relationships or Just Not There?

Being present with the other person keeps relationships alive

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Apr 27

How Radical Non-Interference Makes Our Relationship Feel So Peaceful

We have this sense of being together and also each being our individual selves, an experience of being given space to be and do whatever…

Phil alone, contemplating Hwy 1.

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Apr 20

How to Apply Your Intention Toward Peace in All Your Relationships

Peace is a dynamic, living reality that can be experienced between people who have made a choice and come to a decision about where they…

Pink clouds at sunrise

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Apr 13

The Boombox Guy Taught Us a Secret to Peace in Relationships

We are looking for connection, and not for sameness, because we want to respond to our kinship with others, not to our separation from…

Turtles on a rock

PhilAndMaude

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Relationship experts Phil and Maude have been writing and speaking on how to spread peace one relationship at a time for many years.

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