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What Does Love Bombing Look Like?
Not to be delusional but some people genuinely find it perfectly normal for someone to fall for them within a couple of days or weeks of meeting them and why wouldn’t they?
If you believe you’re amazing, what wouldn’t make someone be head over heels for you? Why would it be so strange for someone to fall for you when they genuinely believe they’ve finally found the one?
To them, it doesn’t necessarily sound delusional because, in their minds, it’s actually happening. They feel a connection, they like what they see and they believe they’ve met someone they’ve been looking for. Perhaps they have dated enough people to know what they want. Perhaps something about you makes them feel like they’ve finally found their person. So why should they hold back from expressing how they feel?
Honestly, it’s not impossible. People can genuinely develop strong feelings for each other within a short period of time. Someone can meet you and feel an instant connection. They can be excited about getting to know you and even see the possibility of a future together but here’s where things get interesting. Just because someone is expressing strong feelings doesn’t automatically mean they…
